Intentionality is the most essential element of the discipleship process. Obviously, God does all of the heavy lifting, and we rely entirely on the Holy Spirit to accomplish His work in each man, but out of the things we control, being intentional is at the top of the list. This is true because every step of the process requires us to be intentional. We intentionally equip, we intentionally walk our group through Scripture and teach them to apply it to their lives, we intentionally model accountability within our group, and we intentionally guide each man toward becoming a faithful follower of Christ.
It is like everyone getting in a boat together and setting off on a journey. Everyone has a role, but only one rudder is in the water. A group that lacks intentionality is not discipleship.
Paul both modeled and spoke of being intentional. In 2 Timothy 2:2, Paul says to Timothy, "What you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses, commit to faithful men who will be able to teach others also." Notice four generations in this verse: Paul, Timothy, faithful men, and others. Many discipleship programs stop at Timothy and neglect that Paul's model was multigenerational. Replicating is an essential part of discipleship.
The discipleship process begins with building a relationship within your circle of influence. Over time, as the bond strengthens, an opportunity arises to invite the individual into a more structured and purposeful journey: an intentional process for spiritual growth. It involves teaching, equipping, and walking alongside them. This season is both transformative and demanding, requiring commitment from both mentor and disciple.
Over a year, we study God's Word, read several books, memorize Scripture, complete assignments designed to stretch us, and meet weekly as a group. Still, the real value of this process is greater than the sum of its parts.
