100 Ways to Love Her – Her Way

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1. 1.Communicate with her; never close her out
2. 2.Regard her as important
3. 3.Do everything you can to understand her feelings
4. 4.Be interested in her friends
5. 5.Ask her opinion frequently
6. 6.Value what she says
7. 7.Let her feel your approval and affection
8. 8.Protect her on a daily basis
9. 9.Be gentle and tender with her
10. 10.Develop a sense of humor
11. 11.Avoid sudden major changes without discussion and without giving her time to adjust
12. 12.Learn to respond openly and verbally when she wants to communicate
13. 13.Comfort her when she is down emotionally. For instance, put your arms around her and silently hold her for a few seconds without lectures or put-downs
14. 14.Be interested in what she feels is important in life
15. 15.Correct her gently and tenderly
16. 16.Allow her to teach you without putting up your defenses
17. 17.Make special time available to her and your children
18. 18.Be trustworthy
19. 19.Compliment her often
20. 20.Be creative when you express your love, either in words or actions.
21. 21.Have specific family goals for each year
22. 22.Let her buy things she considers necessary
23. 23.Be forgiving when she offends you
24. 24.Show her you need her
25. 25.Accept her the way she is; discover her uniqueness as special
26. 26.Admit your mistakes; don’t be afraid to be humble
27. 27.Lead your family in their spiritual relationship with God
28. 28.Allow your wife to fail; discuss what went wrong, after you have comforted her
29. 29.Rub her feet or neck after a hard day
30. 30.Take time for the two of you to sit and talk calmly
31. 31.Go on romantic outings
32. 32.Write her a letter occasionally, telling her how much you love her
33. 33.Surprise her with a card or flowers
34. 34.Express how much you appreciate her
35. 35.Tell her how proud you are of her
36. 36.Give advice in a loving way when she asks for it
37. 37.Defend her to others
38. 38.Prefer her over others
39. 39.Do not expect her to do activities beyond her emotional or physical capabilities
40. 40.Pray for her to enjoy God’s best in life
41. 41.Take time to notice what she has done for you and the family
42. 42.Brag about her to other people behind her back
43. 43.Share your thoughts and feelings with her
44. 44.Tell her about your job if she is interested
45. 45.Take time to see how she spends her day, at work or at home
46. 46.Learn to enjoy what she enjoys
47. 47.Take care of the kids before dinner
48. 48.Help straighten up the house before mealtime
49. 49.Let her take a bubble bath while you do the dishes
50. 50.Understand her physical limitations if you have several children
51. 51.Discipline the children in love, not anger
52. 52.Help her finish her goals – hobbies or education
53. 53.Treat her as if God had stamped on her forehead, “Handle with care”
54. 54.Get rid of habits that annoy her
55. 55.Be gentle and thoughtful to her relatives
56. 56.Do not compare her relatives with yours in a negative way
57. 57.Thank her for things she has done without expecting anything in return
58. 58.Do not expect a band to play whenever you help with the housekeeping
59. 59.Make sure she understands everything you are planning to do
60. 60.Do little things for her – an unexpected kiss, coffee in bed
61. 61.Treat her as an intellectual equal
62. 62.Find out if she wants to be treated as physically weaker
63. 63.Discover her fears in life
64. 64.See what you can do to eliminate her fears
65. 65.Discover her sexual needs
66. 66.Ask if she wants to discuss how you can meet her sexual needs
67. 67.Find out what makes her insecure
68. 68.Plan your future together
69. 69.Do not quarrel over words, but try to find hidden meanings
70. 70.Practice common courtesies like holding the door for her, pouring coffee
71. 71.Ask if you offend her sexually in any way
72. 72.Ask if she is jealous of anyone
73. 73.See if she is uncomfortable about the way money is spent
74. 74.Take her on dates now and then
75. 75.Hold her hand in public
76. 76.Put your arm around her in front of friends
77. 77.Tell her you love her – often
78. 78.Remember anniversaries, birthdays, and other special occasions
79. 79.Learn to enjoy shopping
80. 80.Teach her to hunt and fish or whatever you enjoy doing
81. 81.Give her a special gift from time to time
82. 82.Share the responsibilities around the house
83. 83.Do not belittle her feminine characteristics
84. 84.Let her express herself freely, without fear of being called stupid or illogical
85. 85.Carefully choose your words, especially when angry
86. 86.Do not criticize her in front of others
87. 87.Do not let her see you become excited about the physical features of another woman if that bothers her
88. 88.Be sensitive to other people
89. 89.Let your family know you want to spend special time with them
90. 90.Fix dinner for her from time to time
91. 91.Be sympathetic when she is sick
92. 92.Call her when you are going to be late
93. 93.Do not disagree with her in front of the children
94. 94.Take her out to dinner and for weekend getaways
95. 95.Do the little things she needs from time to time
96. 96.Give her special time to be alone or with her friends
97. 97.Buy her what she considers an intimate gift
98. 98.Read a book she recommends to you
99. 99.Give her an engraved plaque assuring her of your lasting love
100. 100.Write her a poem about how special she is